Umrah with my grandparents
In December 2023, what began as a casual chat with my grandma about her upcoming Umrah trip turned into a life-changing journey. When I jokingly asked if I could join them, my parents surprised me by saying yes. Suddenly, I found myself preparing for my first international trip to Saudi Arabia for Umrah.
Arriving in Saudi Arabia filled me with a mix of excitement and nervous anticipation. Despite the early hour, we headed straight to perform Umrah. Walking towards the Kaaba, the holiest place in Islam, was an indescribable experience. Each step brought me closer to something profoundly significant. The air hummed with devotion, and the echoes of “Labbaik Allahumma Labbaik” from fellow pilgrims created a powerful sense of unity and spirituality.
Seeing the Kaaba for the first time moved me to tears. It was more beautiful and special than I had ever imagined. Performing Umrah felt surreal, like being part of a timeless tradition of faith. Completing the Tawaf, circling the Kaaba seven times, and the Sa’i, walking between the hills of Safa and Marwah, connected me deeply to centuries of Islamic heritage.
Traveling with my grandparents added a unique dimension to the journey. As a teenager, it was sometimes challenging as they moved slower and had different needs. Despite a few arguments, each moment taught me valuable lessons. One memorable incident was when we got separated from our group while trying to kiss the Hajr-e-Aswad, the Black Stone. Finding our way back was emotional, but kissing the stone was a personal goal fulfilled.
During our 20-day trip, we explored many remarkable places. Climbing to the Cave of Hira, where Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) received his first revelation, offered a breathtaking view of Makkah. It was a moment of reflection on the Prophet’s journey and the origins of Islam. Makkah and Madinah felt like stepping back in time, with their historical and spiritual sites. The Prophet’s Mosque in Madinah, especially the Rawdah, a garden of Paradise within it, was deeply moving. Visiting Mount Uhud and the Quba Mosque provided insights into Islamic history and tradition.
Touching the Kaaba for the first time during Asr prayer in the rain was a magical experience. After finishing our prayers, the rain poured, and I guided my grandma to touch the Kaaba, followed by offering nafl prayers in the downpour. It was a spiritual moment etched in my memory forever.
Even now, memories flood back when I hear the Imam say “Istawoo” or recall the calls of “Yallah Haji Zanana” from police guards directing us. These moments give me goosebumps, reminding me of the profound spiritual journey I undertook.
If you’re planning an Umrah trip, here are some tips for a smoother and more meaningful experience:
- Pack Light: Bring essentials like comfortable clothes, toiletries, and medications. You can purchase other items upon arrival.
- Time in the Mataf Area: Spend ample time in the Mataf area, where you perform Tawaf. Bring light snacks to sustain yourself.
- Stay Hydrated: Drink Zam Zam water to stay hydrated in the hot weather.
- Avoid Heavy Backpacks: Carry only necessary items during Umrah to avoid fatigue.
- Limit Social Media: Focus on your spiritual journey rather than social media. Capture a few memories, but prioritize your devotion.
This Umrah journey taught me patience (sabr) and trust in Allah (tawakkul). Patience was essential when adapting to my grandparents’ pace and needs, while trust in Allah guided us during moments of uncertainty.
As our journey concluded and we left Saudi Arabia, I felt immense gratitude for this transformative experience. Umrah deepened my faith and strengthened familial bonds. It was a journey that enriched my understanding of faith and community, one that I will cherish forever. I am grateful to my grandparents for taking me along and to my parents for allowing me to embark on this unforgettable journey.
Maryam Mukhtar, student of G.D Goenka Public School Srinagar, Grade 9th
