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The Unconditional Love of a Mother

On Mother’s Day, this piece is dedicated to the cherished memory of Mrs. Gauri Kaul, the inspiration behind the Gauri Kaul Foundation
01:08 AM May 12, 2024 IST | DR. ZUBAIR SALEEM
the unconditional love of a mother
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Being fortunate enough to have your parents living with you is a profound blessing that not everyone enjoys. It’s like having a guiding light in your life, someone who is always there for you through thick and thin. Life itself doesn’t come with a manual or a set of instructions to navigate its complexities, but it does gift us with a mother. A mother’s love knows no bounds; she dedicates herself to your well-being and imparts invaluable wisdom along the way. Her happiness is intertwined with yours, and she feels every joy and sorrow deeply. In essence, your mother plays many roles in your life - she’s a caregiver, a mentor, a confidante, and a friend. While others may come and go, her presence remains irreplaceable, shaping your journey with her unconditional love and unwavering support.

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It’s essential to honor and cherish your mother, regardless of needing a specific reason to do so. From the moment you entered this world until now, she’s been the one nurturing and shaping you into the person you are today. She prioritizes your needs above her own, ensuring you have the best and enough while often putting herself last. Your very existence is indebted to her, as she brought you into this world and sustains you with her love and care. Your presence is not just a mere gift but a intense favor bestowed upon you by your mother, who endured nine months of hardship carrying you in her womb. This act of kindness and sacrifice is something you can never fully repay, underscoring the depth of her love and selflessness.

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At one year old, your mother cared for you tirelessly, soothing your cries and attending to your every need. At two, she cooked for you, yet you left messes behind. By age 15, she invested in your growth, sending you to summer camp, but you didn’t show gratitude. When you graduated high school at 18, she shed tears of pride, yet you prioritized partying over celebrating with her. At 19, she supported your college education, but you hesitated to introduce her to your peers. Through every stage of your life, your mother’s love and sacrifices were constant, yet sometimes overlooked or taken for granted. It’s essential to recognize her unwavering devotion and express gratitude for her selfless efforts, ensuring she feels valued and appreciated.

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At 25 years old, your mother poured her heart and soul into helping you arrange your wedding. She spared no expense, using all her savings to ensure your big day was unforgettable. Despite her sacrifices, you made the decision to move away, leaving her behind in a different home, in a different city. As time passed and you reached 40, your mother grew older and began to rely on you for support and care. However, treating her as others, you failed to recognize her as an integral part of your family and neglected her needs. Tragically, she has now passed away, and the chance to make things right has slipped away forever. It’s a painful realization that the actions and choices made in the past cannot be undone, leaving a profound sense of regret and sorrow.

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Bottomline: While your mother is still here with you, show her kindness and express your love. Every mother may have her own struggles, but they all share one remarkable feat: bringing us into this world and nurturing us. They carried us with love and gave us the gift of life itself. Don’t wait until it’s too late to bring joy to your mother’s heart. Take the opportunity now to cherish her, appreciate her, and let her know how much she means to you. Time is precious, and showing gratitude and love to your mother should not be postponed indefinitely.

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It’s important to do it now. Nowadays, lots of kids only think about their moms once they’re gone, at their graves. They feel sad that they didn’t give them everything they could while they were alive. They regret being distant, not caring, and not showing gratitude.

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Even if there’s been a disagreement and communication has faltered between you and your mother, it’s crucial to recognize her importance in your life. Despite any conflicts or misunderstandings, showing care and concern for her well-being can bridge the gap and foster reconciliation. Making an effort to mend the relationship and bring joy to her life demonstrates love and appreciation, which can help heal wounds and strengthen the bond between a parent and child. It’s never too late to extend kindness and support to your mother, regardless of past differences or hardships.

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Mothers Day presents an opportunity for reconciliation and appreciation. Remember, there’s only one mother in the world, and her love and support are irreplaceable.

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