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Giving them everything can lead to negative consequences
10:44 PM Dec 12, 2024 IST | Meezah Baqal
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We are in the 21st century, a time when we can challenge certain norms until we reach maturity.

Today, children are exploiting parental support, which may hinder their social interactions with others.

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Parents play a crucial role in their children's lives, as they help shape their personality and social interactions. Indeed, parents often adapt their mindsets regarding their children. While maintaining a friendly approach is important, at times, enforcing strict rules is necessary for the well-being of their children. Currently, I notice some parents granting their children financial freedom and purchasing expensive items, which can lead to difficult situations that may be hard to manage; or regret in the long run. In our youth, we can decide which direction to take, while minor mistakes can lead to parents feeling overwhelmed. At times, children choose to brag, leading to accusations from their parents.

The kids believe that their parents have granted them expensive gifts without much effort, reflecting a certain leniency towards less fortunate parents. Could this leniency be something that parents later regret? Nowadays, instead of considering that someone scolding their child might have good intentions, parents often react with anger. Displaying financial wealth doesn't truly benefit them, but it can have an impact on their children. They have taken the initial steps in a challenging journey filled with many gifts. I believe that sometimes indulging children is fine, but it must be done within certain limits.

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Recently, a tragic loss occurred in Kashmir. Two young individuals took on a challenge on a bypass road, competing to see who would win, but they ended up losing their lives in a devastating accident. A car is a powerful machine, and we can't guarantee our safety around it. Now, what can those parents do about the cars that took their beloved ones away to heaven? According to Section 130 of the Motor Vehicle Act, parents are not permitted to allow minors to drive without a license.

The regulations specify that age is a crucial factor, and the law established in 1988 states that minors cannot achieve the necessary maturity to obtain a driving license until they reach a certain age. Despite children's limited attention spans, giving them everything can lead to negative consequences. Many parents later regret trying to showcase their financial status. An inadequate mindset may lead them to overspend beyond what they can afford. Some experts advise parents to limit information shared with their children to avoid jeopardizing their financial well-being. In conclusion, I suggest maintaining a friendly environment while also sometimes implementing strict rules to ensure their safety.

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