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Everyday Injustices

What struck me was not ignorance. It was choice
11:04 PM Dec 27, 2025 IST | Syeda Afshana
What struck me was not ignorance. It was choice
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I was coming back from work. The day had been long. The mind was tired, but wide awake. On the way, traffic slowed. Then stopped. A familiar scene. But this time, something felt heavier. An ambulance was stuck in the jam. Sirens on. Lights flashing. Urgency written all over it.

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It tried to make its way. Inches at a time. People looked. Some moved. Many did not. Then I saw why. A car was parked on the main road. Right there. Near a grocery store. Hazard lights blinking, as if that made it acceptable. The driver had stepped out. To buy something. A few items. A routine errand.

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What struck me was not ignorance. It was choice. Barely a hundred meters ahead, there was space to park. Proper space. Clear road. Safe for everyone. But convenience won. Convenience always wins. The ambulance waited. Time passed. Seconds stretched into something dangerous.

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I wondered who was inside. A heart struggling. A brain starving of oxygen. A life hanging on minutes. And here we were. Blocked by groceries.

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I felt anger. Sharp. Immediate. Then something deeper. A familiar helplessness. I wanted to step out. Say something. Ask a simple question- “Is your errand more important than a life?”

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Yet I didn’t. Not because I didn’t care. But because I have seen what happens when one speaks. Arguments. Mockery. Shrugs. Sometimes abuse. So, I stayed inside the car. Like many others. Silent. Watching. The ambulance eventually moved. The car eventually shifted. Life went on. However, the moment stayed.

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It made me think of all the other moments like this. Not just on roads. Everywhere. At home. In offices. At meetings. At social gatherings. Moments when something is clearly unfair. Clearly wrong. Clearly unreasonable. Everyday Injustices that appear in queues, offices, homes and public spaces. The small moments of unfairness that survive not because they are powerful, but because they go unchallenged as we prefer to stay quiet.

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We swallow words. We adjust. We tell ourselves, “This is how things are.” We see someone cut a queue. We let it pass. We see a rule bent for convenience. We look away. We see elders ignored. We say nothing.

We see misinformation spread. We scroll ahead. We see disrespect. We smile politely. Silence becomes our default response. Not because we agree. But because speaking has a cost.

It costs energy. Respect. Peace. Sometimes safety. So, we choose silence. Again and again. And silence has its own cost. That ambulance reminded me of it. Every time we do not speak, something shifts. Not outside. Inside us. We become smaller. More cautious. Less human.

We start accepting things we once questioned. Then defending them. Then normalising them. Blocking an ambulance becomes “just five minutes.” Breaking a rule becomes “adjustment.”
Hurting someone becomes “not my business.” And slowly, empathy erodes. What disturbed me most was not the parked car. It was the crowd. The number of people who saw. And did nothing. Including me.

I am not writing this to claim any moral high ground. I failed in that moment. I am writing because that failure stayed with me. Because I know how often we carry these moments home. Into our rooms. Into our thoughts.

We replay them at evening. We think of what we should have said. What we could have done. And then morning comes. And we repeat the same pattern.

We tell our students to be brave. But we model silence. We teach ethics in classrooms. But practice convenience on roads. We speak of values. But act out of comfort. This is not about one car. Or one ambulance. It is about everyday courage. The small, uncomfortable kind. The courage to speak politely. Firmly. Without shouting. Without insulting.

The courage to say, “This is not right.” Even if no one claps. Change does not always come from big movements. Sometimes it starts with one voice. At the wrong moment. In the wrong place. Even if that voice trembles.

Not to argue. Not to lecture. But to remind. That a road is shared. That rules exist for reasons. That someone’s emergency is never an inconvenience. And that silence, too, is a choice. The one we must learn to question.

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