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Addressing Mental Health Challenges in Children

Children may not voice their pain, but their behavior speaks
11:22 PM Aug 12, 2025 IST | Dr Gowhar Ali
Children may not voice their pain, but their behavior speaks
addressing mental health challenges in children
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In today’s world, mental health issues are exponentially rising, and mental health concerns in children are no exception to it. These issues are incredibly common, yet often overlooked. How many cases the eyes have encountered but parents remain clueless.

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It may seem absurd to a parent when told that their child is suffering from mental health problems. The parent may wonder how it is even possible for a child—someone not expected to understand terms like mental health, stress, anxiety, or depression—to be affected by such serious conditions. Yet, this is the harsh reality of our times.

According to the World Health Organization, in 2024, one in seven individuals aged 10 to 19 experiences a mental disorder, accounting for 15% of the global burden of disease. Suicide is the third leading cause of death among 15 to 29-year-olds. Childhood depression is rising at an alarming rate.

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As adults, we encounter a different set of problems—challenges such as peer pressure, family instability, career insecurity, relationship complications, addiction, and other serious concerns. These struggles are manifested and quite  evident in our behavior, and we usually possess a better ability to articulate what we are going through when asked.

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However, there are different case scenarios  when it comes to children. Mental health issues in children often do not manifest clearly and are either misunderstood or completely unnoticed. At such a tender age, children may not even understand what they are feeling or experiencing or going through.

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The deterioration of mental health in children is a deeply concerning issue that needs to be addressed at the earliest. But the question is: why does this happen? The reasons are countless, with one of the most significant contributors being family-related issues.

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Adults often believe that children remain unaffected by what happens within the family. However, children are highly sensitive to their environment. They absorb the emotional aura of the household they live in. It is a delusional and outdated belief that children are immune to the effects of family turmoil.

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A child’s first school is their family. The very first lessons in behavior are learned from the interactions between parents. The child idealizes the parent. As parents, if we fail to demonstrate morality, ethics, discipline, compassion, and love, we should not be surprised to see deficiencies in these traits reflected in our child later in life.

Be Concerned About the Changes in Your.Investigate any unusual behavior. You never know what your child might be silently enduring—be it family trauma, unnoticed harassment, certain inferiority or superiority complexes, or peer pressure. These issues may seem casual or insignificant to adults, but they weigh heavily on young minds.

Such issues can keep children at bay from basic sense of joy and happiness. These Problems that are taken on a lighter note earlier but lead to  hazardous consequences with the  child becoming the primary victim and eventually those who are connected to them feel the impact.

As parents and adults, we need to step up. We have a vital role to play. It is essential that we take time out of our busiest schedules to truly see and understand our children. There is a growing disconnection between adults and children—a gap that desperately needs to be filled.

It is heartbreaking that children, at such a tender age, are burdened with emotional suffering. Technology, too, has played a role. Parents are often more involved in their devices than in their children. Handing over gadgets to children instead of offering emotional support has further deteriorated the situation.

No problem is too large to be addressed—it all the matter of  will and effort. If we want to curb this issue at the earliest, parents must take the lead, followed closely by guardians and teachers.

It’s crucial to closely analyze your child’s behavior. Be alert to any changes—whether it’s an addition or a deficiency in their behavior including _

Lack of age-appropriate playfulness,Difficulty concentrating,

Anger issues,Unusual silence,Growing rudeness, Irritability

Disinterest in activities that normally bring joy to children.

Once you identify that something is wrong,dig deeper to find the root cause. And for that, you must become a true friend to your child. Tackle the situation delicately, ensuring your approach does not negatively affect the child.

Sometimes, the solution may be as simple as behavioral therapy, certain adjustments in the family environment, or shielding the child from a possible source of harassment or In some instances medical help may be necessary. Seeking medical help  should never be considered taboo, regardless of age.Isn’t it  irrational to seek medical help for something as common as a headache, yet hesitate to seek professional help for serious psychological issues.

It’s worth remembrance: a stable family environment, early recognition, open conversations, strong emotional bonds, and a loving atmosphere—these are the things that truly make  all the difference.

 

 

 

 

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